“Life is messy, if you really want to live you're going to have to get your hands dirty….........

A good starting point, when you focus on your life being messy, is to accept what is and then get your hands dirty. This will lead you to making choices on how to get your hands dirty and where to start. Your choice will be to just ignore or accept the things you can change right now, or that are not on the top of the list of things that you are willing to invest your dirty hands in working on.

Goals require work, and then more work.

Same with finding the best job fit. Talk, don't just click social media. Voice to Voice. Ask questions. Do the research. Finish the day tired. Work at finding the best job.