Finding Inspiration: Should Life Be About Winning?
Is winning a good life goal?
Vince Lombardi, the legendary football coach, famously said, “Winners never quit, and quitters never win.” He is also often credited with another line: “Winning isn’t everything; it’s the only thing.”
That point of view frames winning as victory in a contest; someone succeeds because someone else loses. When I sit with that idea, I’m left wondering what it really means outside of a game or a scoreboard.
What have I actually won in my life?
Winning suggests competition. Whom did I beat? Was it skill or luck? And if it was luck, did it matter? If winning means receiving a prize, is that a meaningful reason to outperform others? If it means effort, the question shifts.
There have been many times when I focused fully on reaching a goal. But in life, “winning” often looks less like defeating others and more like living in alignment with your values, pursuing your goals, supporting your family, and resting at the end of the day with a sense of contentment.
By that definition, winning becomes personal. It stops being a noun you possess and becomes an adjective describing how you lived.
If two people work as hard and as thoughtfully as they can toward their own goals, and both reach them, did they both win? What if one result looks better from the outside? The answer depends on whether the goal was to outperform someone else or to do your best.
That distinction matters.
When winning becomes a requirement rather than a byproduct, when survival, status, or self-worth depends on it, pressure replaces purpose. Improvement turns into anxiety. Comparison turns into risk.
Striving to do your best is sustainable. Needing to win at all costs is not.
Winning, when it is the only thing that matters, eventually brings trouble with it. But effort, integrity, and clarity of purpose tend to endure long after the scoreboard fades.
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When Your Mind is Open Inspiration Can Find It’s way in
Inspiration is motivation from an external source that causes a person to have an idea and/or produce something creatively. The ideas come from somewhere else or are prompted by something outside of your brain and perhaps that is why your mind has to be open.
The inspired thoughts have to have somewhere to fit in your mind, and if your mind is closed for business, then new ideas may not be welcomed.
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The song “The River of Dreams by Billy Joel” focuses on the issues about life confronting the person who has lost something precious that they cannot remember. The singer tells us:
“In the middle of the night, I go walking in my sleep, through the desert of truth, to the river so deep.”
