You are unique, and your ability to achieve your goals comes from the choices you make every day. Your daily choices reflect and determine which of your goals and values mean the most to you. By identifying what matters most to you, you can make choices that align with your values and goals.
In many ways, our identity is a story created from our decisions and choices. These choices determine our path in life and can either lead us toward our goals or away from them.
Instead of comparing yourself to others, a more enlightening approach would be to delve into self-awareness. The book by author Brent M. Jones, "The Human Factor: How Finding Dream Job Starts By Getting To Know Yourself," Is a beacon of wisdom in this journey. The ideas discussed in this book apply to finding your dream job, achieving your goals, and aligning your choices with your values.